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Post Sex in the City Movie Thoughts


*spoiler alert*

Watched Sex in the City with my boyfriend recently, and I came out totally feeling happy and thinking hard after the show.

If you haven't watched it, YOU MUST WATCH IT!! It's one of the best movies EVER. =) 5 stars by me.

Happy, because after watching 6 seasons of the drama on DVD I finally get to see Carrie marry Mr Big (this is not exactly a spoiler because it's been over advertised in its various trailers anyway ;p). And there were many happy endings in the movie as well related to the other 3 girls which I also love. Samantha became her cool single self, Miranda made up with Steve and Charlotte had a beautiful baby girl :)

However, this movie also got my thinking real hard. I mean like these 4 girls are really tight... and I mean.. R E A L L Y... TIGHT. They can talk about anything in the world, and their friends will accept the fact. I mean, yea, they do fight and get angry with one another, but after some apology, the matter will just blow over and they'll forget afterward.

Also, these ladies here keep each other grounded, I think they know each other more than they know themselves. Haha. They're like the mirrors that never lie. They say the truth to their friend even if it hurts. And the other party usually takes it constructively. I wouldn't say that they don't judge each other... this is a fact of life.. like we judge, but it's a matter of whether you use that judgement to affect the relationship.

However, in reality, do friends like these really exist? Can you really talk to your close girlfriends about anything in the world? I mean there will always be some kind of filter when you talk to certain people won't there?

Also, in the asian context, it's tough to talk about sex. Well, it's getting better, but it's still a taboo subject.

How about when Samantha grew fatter because she eats so that she won't cheat? Carrie and the rest asked her about her fat tummy. But can you EVER imagine saying that to your close girlfriend? I mean... don't you think she'll feel offended? Samantha was just a little offended, and her reaction was not as bad as I imagined.

I have a few close girlfriends, but I totally cannot imagine asking them why they grew fatter (if they did). I think I would be slaughtered (especially when I'm genetically slim like since forever ;p)

So do BFFs like these exist in the asian context?

Is the movie too good to be true?

What do you think?

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